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Feel the Joy of Your Unfulfilled Desires
September 7, 2009 by Lilly
Filed under Spirituality

You don’t stop very often to think about how you are feeling. And yet, how you are feeling is everything. How you are feeling is your point of attraction. How you are feeling is your asking from the Universe. How you are feeling is everything that is coming to you!
Most of you have not discovered that the Universe is conspiring to assist you. And so you work hard from an attitude of unworthiness, from a feeling that you are not enough, from a feeling that you have to justify. And what I want you to begin to do is recognize that the Universe is responding to the way you feel. So think about the way you feel.
Don’t think so much about what you’re thinking or about what you have or about how you compare with your actions or your possessions to others. Instead, think about how you feel. Ask yourself, “Am I sitting here in a feeling of well-being? Do I feel intimidated? Do I feel self-conscious? Do I feel inadequate? Do I feel unworthy? Or do I feel pretty good? Do I feel cocky? Do I feel full of myself? Do I feel in love with life? Do I feel exhilarated? Am I feeling fun? Am I feeling some passion?” How you’re feeling is what your point of attraction is.
Your Point of Attraction
If you’re feeling unworthy, you can work day and night, night and day, every day, and yet not allow the very things that you want to flow, because your vibration is not allowing it, and the Universe cannot buck your current. How you’re feeling is everything. So if I were standing in your physical shoes, I would let the contrast naturally produce the desire, because it will.
And when I feel a desire within me, I would look at it, I would recognize the weirdness of it, I would recognize how unfamiliar it feels, and then I would do what is my work: I will do the work that I have been born to do: My work is to take that new desire and play with it in my mind’s eye, until it feels familiar, until it feels like the manifestation of it is the next logical step.
The goal must exist to summon the Energy, but the goal can’t matter that much — or it stops the Energy.
Let us bring this to a place that if you get this, you will have quantum leaped into a new place of deliberate attraction: Most everybody stands here, dissatisfied to some degree, longing to be over there. But the whole point of that point of attention to over there is not to get over there. The whole point of the goal or the desire is that the desire summons Life Force through you.
That’s why you’re always wanting another goal, another goal, another goal. That’s why I say you will never get it done. So, “Why do I want that?” It’s an interesting thing, isn’t it? The goal must exist to summon the Energy, but the goal can’t matter that much, or it stops the Energy. You’re wanting the goal for the sake of the Energy that will flow through you, not for the sake of the manifestation.
A woman, one day, said to me, “I don’t think you care if my lover ever comes to me. I think you want me to envision him so clearly that in my mind’s eye, he is real — so real, that it doesn’t matter that he’s not really there.” And I said, that’s exactly right. I know when she feels him in that way, the pain will be gone from her, and the Life Force will flow through her, and all of her goals will be achieved. And I also know, then he must come. But it is not about him coming. It is about him being a goal that is reason for her to focus, that causes Life Force to flow through her. It is about the Life Force flowing through her.
I am delighted that you have unfulfilled goals, because as long as you have desire, Life Force is still flowing through you. From our Nonphysical perspective, I see the unfulfilled goal as the constant summoning of life. You say, “We want fulfilled goals!” And I say, Your goals will all be fulfilled when you get over being so unhappy that they’re not fulfilled — when you start being satisfied in the un-fulfillment!
The Cycle of Creation
Here I am. Here is this contrast that gives birth to a new desire. The new desire feels weird in the beginning, because this is where I’m used to vibrating. So I look at it; I talk about it; I visualize it; I play with it; I imagine it until it becomes familiar — and now it is the vibration that is me. And now we are one.
Now I have a new platform from which to examine contrast, which gives birth to another desire, which is also weird in the beginning. I’m a failure’ again; I haven’t succeeded. But I look at it; I visualize it; I find the feeling place of it; it gets familiar; I imagine it; and it becomes the next logical step. It manifests, and now here I am again… You never stop that cycle so long as you all shall live — which is forever.
You should say, “I will go forth into this physical time/space reality, because this is the best environment that I know of that will keep producing new desire within me. And nothing in all of the Universe is more delicious than to have new desire within me!”
Celebrate the desire that is within you, and stop cursing the fact that it isn’t fulfilled! It is the desire that is within you that is worth everything — it is life itself! You keep thinking that it must be manifested before you can feel good, and that is backwards. The fact that it exists is the reason for the Life Force.
There isn’t anything that you want or have ever wanted, or anybody has ever wanted or ever will want that is for any other reason than this: You want it because you think, in the having of it, you will feel better. And I am here to say to you, you want it because in the wanting of it, Life Force is summoned through you — and you are more alive. You are in the flow.
Being In The Flow is having goals that cause Energy to flow through you. It is being in such a place of expectation and acceptance of your eternal motion forward, that you are eternally in the flow. So people say, “How are you doing?” And you say, “Great!” And they say, “Well, is there anything not going well with you?” And you say, “Everything always goes well with me!” And they say, “Oh, but I see there are all these things incomplete in your experience.” And you say, “Yeah, isn’t it great? That means I’m still alive. I still have wanting, I’m still summoning life. That means I still have the future ahead of me. That means Life Force is still flowing.”
Have you ever found yourself eating an ice cream cone and wanting to make it last? Do you find yourself ever in a sexual interlude or in a delicious book, wanting it to last? You can tell you’re getting to the end of it, and you don’t want it to be over? You know that feeling of savoring? That’s the way we’re wanting you to be with your goals. And that may be why you’re not so eager to get on with the completion of everything. You’re recognizing that you have all of this life before you — so much wonderful stuff to do — never getting it done.
Where you now are is the perfect place to be, the perfect place to move from, the perfect place from which to attract. Nothing is inappropriate with where you are. There’s not one reason in this world for you to feel anything but proud about where you are and eager about what it will produce for you.
All things are possible. Oh, you can’t even begin to get your thoughts around what is before you! But you see, none of you are ever asked (and it’s a wonderful thing) to stand here and plan everything forevermore. Just stand where you are and let the natural desire that is born out of that come into alignment with you. That’s your work: Contrast produces it. You feel it, recognize it, and then line up your Energy with it.
You are born into an environment that will produce the goals. Your work is then to choose from those goals, focus, as the creator that you are, and in your focusing, allow the Energy to flow to the completion of those goals. There are endless possibilities.
So many of you spend your lifetimes arguing about what is an appropriate goal. I’m not kidding when I say you cannot get it wrong. There are no actions that are deemed inappropriate as such. Sometimes people say, you scare us, because as you talk about absolute freedom, we are afraid that you might give people permission to do bad things to other people.
Whether I give them permission or not, everybody’s going to do what they’re going to do, and you can’t get enough laws into place to keep that from happening. But I promise you, no one would ever do anything bad to any other at the same time they were connected to Source Energy. You never connect to Source Energy and lash out against anyone else.
As you are pushing against wrongdoers, even though they might be really doing wrong, your pushing against them disconnects you from any real power. You think the strongest one wins. But your pushing against them is dis-empowering you, and their pushing against you is dis-empowering them. So if your opponent wins, it is actually because you pushed against hardest.
When you are pushing against someone –you are weakening yourself. “My adversary won because I did a better job of disallowing my well-being. I pushed harder against him.” I’m just wanting to get a little twist on this, so that you can give up all that pushing against, because it never helps.
There has been co-creating here that has taken this thought beyond that which it has been before. Once you have an opportunity to review this, you will realize that together, we will have achieved a sort of quantum leap in understanding.
Live in Joy!
Lilly
Engage Today 2009 Conference Event
What if you could learn directly from some of the World’s greatest thinkers including Richard Branson, Dr. Stephen R. Covey, Bill Harris, and His Holiness the Dalai Lama? It doesn’t happen very often where you get the chance to learn directly from some of the world’s top thinkers and business leaders .. but that’s exactly the opportunity I wanted to share with you!
Some of the world’s brightest entrepreneurs will converge on Calgary from September 30th to October 3rd to ‘engage community to change the world.’
Engage Today (www.engagetodayevent.com) brings together top business leaders to explore how they can use business and commerce to create the catalyst for positive economic, social and environmental change.
This international conference will bring the world together under one simple theme – by engaging business, organizations and individuals in our community, we create the catalyst for positive change from an economic, social and environmental perspective.
You may not be able to attend the live event in Canada but by simply participating in the FREE training calls you will be able to tap into the wisdom of world-renowned super-achievers, expand your thinking, potentially transform your life and even make a significance difference to the world. And right now the world is in need of individuals, like you, who want to make a significant difference!
Specifically, the greatest challenge for business owners, entrepreneurs and investors is to use their organization to create positive change in the world. We are eager to make a difference and create change, but we are not sure how to utilize our resources effectively to ignite the passion and enthusiasm to bring forth that change in the world.
Engage Today will provide the international business, investment and non-profit communities the opportunity to see first-hand how many of the world’s leaders are creating significant change through their organizations. You will learn how to bring about change and ignite your passion, whether you are the CEO of a major international corporation, the owner of a small business, a sole proprietor or anywhere in between.
Engage Today will draw attendees together from around the world to be inspired, empowered and educated on how they can use business and commerce for the good of the local and global community.
Keynote speakers include, but is not limited to:
Sir Richard Branson, president and founder of Virgin Group. Its 200 companies employ 50,000 people in 29 countries in the aviation, entertainment, hospitality and leisure, telecommunications, financial services, health and wellness and clean energy industries. Richard in 2004 launched Virgin Unite to pull together the Group’s international resources and staff. They have helped create sustainable health clinics in Africa and fostered new entrepreneurs through the Branson School of Entrepreneurship in South Africa.
Dr. Stephen R. Covey. Recognized as one of Time magazine’s 25 most influential Americans, Dr. Stephen R. Covey has dedicated his life to demonstrating how every person can control their destiny. An internationally respected leadership authority, family expert, teacher, organizational consultant and author, Dr. Covey has sold over 20 million books in 38 languages, including the #1 Most Influential Business Book of the 20th Century, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
Bill Harris owner of CenterPoint Research, and his principles of how to quickly and easily create the mindset to overcome obstacles and take control of the life you want.
Janet Bray Attwood, visionary leader and world humanitarian. Janet is the co-author of the New York Times bestseller The Passion Test – The Effortless Path to Discovering Your Life’s Purpose. She and her co-author Chris Attwood have trained more than 450 Passion Test Facilitators around the world. She earned the President’s Volunteer Service Award for her work with kids and teens in detention centers and homeless men and women in transition.
His Holiness the Dalai Lama. Conference attendees, from leaders of international corporations to small business owners and sole proprietors, will have the special opportunity to hear the Tibetan spiritual leader speak in an intimate presentation at the University of Calgary.
South African President F.W. deKlerk shares his extraordinary story of ending apartheid and releasing Nelson Mandela after 27 years in prison — and what it took to create such historic change in an entire culture.
Tony Hsieh reveals the secrets of how his focus on service and value (and not just money) allowed him to change an industry, and engineer the sale of his company, Zappos.com, to Amazon for over $900 million
Carol Cone shows how to integrate your values and commitment social issues into your business for significant bottom-line impact.
Brendon Burchard provides powerful case studies of others reaching breakthrough results because of this new model of social capitalism.
Bryan Adams and K.D. Lang. Exclusive concerts by these award-winning musicians are planned as part of the conference.
Engage Today is the brainchild of Greg Habstritt, founder and president of SimpleWealth and the Real Equity Group of Companies. With more than 20 years of entrepreneurial and investment experience, Greg has founded, built and sold more than a dozen companies; become a millionaire with four businesses in four industries; and received numerous awards, including Young Entrepreneur of the Year.
To find out more, visit www.engagetodayevent.com.
This conference will change our world. The global economic crisis has been a wake-up call to all of us. Now you have the chance to join some of the top thought leaders and business people in the world to create a new paradigm for our relationship with wealth, prosperity and success. I wouldn’t miss this opportunity for anything and I hope you won’t either.
Hope to see you all there!
Wild Horse Empowerment – Rick Allen and Lauren Monroe
This video was sent to me on Facebook, by my friend and Def Leppard drummer Rick Allan, and his beautiful partner Lauren Monroe.
Rick Allen and Lauren Monroe visited the Life Savers Ranch in Lancaster, CA and each had a first hand experience gentling or whispering wild horses.
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Music: Oneness Chant by Lauren Monroe and Rick Allen.
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