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How to Attract Women, Learn How To Approach, Attract, and Pick Up Women Immediately
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How To Attract Women
I've been getting into baseball this season.
For a better part of my existence I haven't really exercised being an
avid sports fan. Lately, though, I decided to hang out at AT&T Park here
in San Fran, and see the Giants play. Why all of a sudden you ask? One
of my best gals sports season tickets!
One thing that you can't possibly overlook about the ballpark is that
it's completely SWARMING with hot, summer-clad ladies.
No joke. It's tantamount to a huge nightclub that entertains 40,800
people, which holds nothing but hot (literally and figuratively) women
running around with daisy-duke fringed shorts and form fitting, most
liberating, tube tops.
More often than not, I'm not paying attention to the baseball game at
all. I stroll around, unassumingly and see who I can 'pick up'. This
potential dating venue is something that you may want to try out
gentlemen!
Anyhow, I find it extremely mind blowing that these baseball players can
belt this tiny ball that's being hurled at them upwards of 100 MPH.
I came across an article pertaining to baseball batters on the plane
last week. It was an interview with top baseball batters and about what
it entails to be able to be a superior hitter.
A repeated theme came to light as each team member spoke about "eyeing
the ball". Keeping your eye on the ball.
They went on to say that on their best days that they can focus directly
on tthe pitch and actually follow the ball all the way down the pike as
if it were in slow motion.
Their minds' and intentions are so completely centralized on one thing,
that time actually slows to where it feels like slow motion. They can
visualize everything occurring with much more clarity.
When I read this article it reminded me of what I feel like when I hit
my 'state" in the (dating) 'field'. You know how that feels. You KNOW
when you're there. Or not.
It's when you have one of those perfect evenings out, where everything
you say is gold and you're spot on! You're firing on all 4 cylinders,
everything that comes out of your mouth is money, plus your groove and
timing are impeccable.
If you can attain proficiency of this "State control" you would be
hitting more home runs than Barry Bonds and Jason Giambi combined... no
injections needed!
When you're in this 'state' of mind there's nothing you can't do.
Nothing goes wrong. I've been researching this allot recently. And
asking myself; what exactly is this "state" of mind, and what lasting
effect does it have on the mind and body? More importantly, how does it
affect your dating 'game'?
Granted, there are many times where you (we all!) just don't feel it.
We're not on our game at all. And you can feel it. You can't be in the
ideal state all of the time....or can you?
I know from experience that when I am NOT feeling that "state"... that
there is a CLEAR and unpleasant outcome. My body becomes deluged with
adrenaline causing me to be nervous, feel clammy, and somewhat sick to
my stomach.
Sometimes I even freeze upon approach of a woman, in intense instances.
When you feel this, it is your infamous 'fight or flight' response being
victorious.
There is also a counter "State' in the practice of psychoneuroimmunology
appropriately named the relaxation response. The relaxation response is
characterized by a decrease in heart rate, respiration, blood pressure,
perspiration, and an increased immune response.
Specifically, a positive attitude can genuinely alleviate serious
conditions. There are several verified medical cases which report
patients being cured of cancer after being given only placebos as
treatment.
They anticipated getting better, maintained a positive attitude because
of it, and as a result, they recovered! Controlling your 'State' of
(positive) mind is the one constant, which more than any other,
contributes to the caliber of your game, especially in spite of
paralyzing social pressure.
I am going to use the term "State" in this article to refer to the
feeling that we get both mentally and physically and when furnished with
a challenge.
The challenge itself is unimportant. You might be sick with cold, in a
club that's louder than a Super Bowl stadium, approaching a "perrrrrfect
10" who's currently enthralled by six tall, dark, rich-looking handsome
and beefy men.
The essential part of this, depends upon your perception of the
scenario.
How you perceive circumstances will fundamentally prevail, regarding the
QUALITY of your game, and your 'state' of mind at any given time--will
inevitably determine how you perceive things. As a result, when you
are able to control your "state" you are able to control how calculated
and calm your responses will be to any given situation.
This is the framework of what some call the "inner game".
Ironically, by worrying about these things, you can almost guarantee
your failure. What we expect tends to come true. Even if what we expect
isn't at all accurate, we'll behave in ways consistent with the assumed
unsuitable outcome, and all the while, our body language and speech
indicate this.
Women have a tendency to respond by adapting their demeanor to mirror
ours. The aftereffect? Your (fear) expectation expectation becomes true.
I am witness to this continuously when I'm on assignment with newbies.
I'll ask them to approach a particular group of women and I can
immediately observe them hashing over failure scenarios in their mind.
Awkwardly the guy approaches the group and eeks out an 'opener'. More
often than not the women will ask them to repeat what they said because
it was inaudible, then they offer a random nondescript (sometimes
inaudible) reply.
This newbie will then scramble to employ a follow-up routine to drum up
a conversation, only to stand about on a fishing expedition with needy,
insecure, body language, waiting in agony for the silence to be broken
and for the girls to say something.
Can you guess what happens next?
That's right. They get BLOWN OUT OF THE WATER.
Check this out. The guy is implementing the same EXACT 'opener' that I
use. The words
he is speaking are exactly the same as I have taught him. I am not
richer or better looking or better dressed than this new guy.
However, when I come across a similar situation, I am never asked to
repeat myself, nor do I receive noncommittal replies.
My follow-up does not get me blown out of the water, au contraire, it
gets the girls GIGGLING AND SQUEALING.
What's the difference?
Simple. While the newcomer guy is standing there worrying about all of
the ways he may possibly fail and look like a fool, I am contemplating
what sort of noises the chick will make when we're in bed.
I have no thoughts of failure.
I allow no time in my thoughts for that, and I seriously don't even give
a damn, because I'm getting laid like a rock star regardless.
Consciously or not, when we approach women we clue them in as to what
our expectations are. We illustrate hundreds of clues, some as subtle as the raising of an eye
brow, the side tilt of head, or the dilation of nostrils. Many are much
more obvious. And women are aware of these cues.
Ultimately, your attitude determines your latitude! And your success in
a lot of respects
to meeting and having a genuine conversation with a woman. Your attitude
also dictates what you can get away with.
I've done some really crazy ridiculous things on the dating playground
that would get an average guy smacked up-side the head in the blink of
an eye. BUT.. I got away with it all because my attitude was harmonious
and congruent with my behavior.
Congruency and your 'state' (of mind) work simultaneously. Remember as
well that women are flexible; they will adapt to whatever air about
yourself you choose to express.
I've learned that it's VERY important to observe and control your
'state' during your interactions with women, as well as before and after
them.
Greeting the evening with a solid positive mind set is by far better
than attempting to adjust your attitude once you're already out for the
night.
Likewise, even your 'state' during interrogation by friends or myself
abot your interactions can distort your views of what really did
happen--if you don't mind your 'state' at all times. This can be
potentially can be misleading and perpetuate unhealthy negativity and
repeat behavior. A viscious circle can ensue.
If you've read this far already,, you're undoubtedly wondering, "OK,
this is all very enlightening chatter, but how can I apply your
experiences to my advantage?
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How To MAINTAIN Peak State of Mind And Adhere to It At All Times
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There are several ways to inspire the relaxation response and hit this
calm 'state'. We know that hypnosis can be effective with certain
patients who are planning a surgery without anesthesia.
Meditation & breathing techniques also work well. At the end of the day
though, I find that just regulating my breathing while I am out 'on the
scene', affords me epic interactions with women and wonderful results.
ON (VERY rare) occasion I'll recognize that I am breathing laboriously,
and I'll just slow it down until I reach a peaceful rhythm. Practice
this. It's helps immensely.
Humor will also energize the relaxation response, though, ironically, it
has has many characteristics of the stress response: increased heart
rate, erratic breathing, etc.
Nothing allows me to arrive at my perfect 'state' as quickly as yukking
it up with mah boys out at the club. Once we all get laughing
hysterically, I feel invincible, I'll approach any group of women at
the drop of a hat.
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