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Life AFTER Divorce
The action you take now will affect the rest of your life.
Life After Divorce
You can either handle your
situation in a way that restores love and promotes healing and cooperation,
or you can interact in a way that creates more conflict and suffering.
A step-by-step system for saving your relationship after
it's been shattered by an affair. Tormented by your unanswered
questions? Devastated after having your complete self-worth
sabotaged? Work through the healing and restoration of your
relationship after an affair. Learn how to restore the honesty,
safety and trust back into your relationship (even if your
partner isn't yet willing).
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HEALING AFTER DIVORCE
Part of the healing process is being
free of your hurt. You also need to
get on with your life.
The end of a marriage can be very
painful, but it's not the end of the
world. Eventually, you'll get past
your hurt and create a new life. How
long it takes to accomplish this is up
to you. The recovery process can be very fast
or it can take years. To have it be
fast, take the following steps:
Create a new life after divorce.
No matter what has happened in your
past, your future is always a clean
slate. Now, more than ever, you have
the opportunity to create the life of
your dreams.
The first step in creating your life
is to find what you want. How do you
want your life to be? What do you want
to have? What do you want to do? Get
clear on what you want. Then start
taking the steps you need to have your
dreams come true.
Be active after divorce.
As long as you are swimming, you'll
stay above water, but as soon as you
stop swimming, you'll start to sink.
The same thing happens in life. As
long as you are active and moving
forward, you'll stay above water, but
as soon as you withdraw, you'll start
to sink.
The more you withdraw, the more life
stops working. The more life stops
working, the more you withdraw. You
create a downward cycle that leads to
depression and a very painful life. So
don't withdraw. Be active.
Look for and find the things in life
that bring you joy. Then do them as
often as you can. Create a life of fun
and adventure.
LIFE
AFTER DIVORCE FEELINGS
Be willing to feel your hurt after your divorce.
After a breakup, you are likely to
experience waves of hurt. This isn't
bad news, this is good news. This is
true because every wave of hurt is an
opportunity for a deeper healing.
Whenever you feel sadness, that hurt
is coming up to be released. If you
allow the hurt, like a child, the hurt
will come and go. If you fight the
hurt, you'll push it back inside.
So allow yourself to feel your hurt.
Whenever the hurt comes up, reach in
and grab as much of it as you can. Let
in the feelings of being worthless,
not good enough or not worth loving.
Cry if you can. Let the hurt come and
let it go.
When you allow yourself to cry and to
feel your hurt, you not only heal the
hurt of the moment, but you also heal
hurt from your past. You gain a little
more peace of mind and life works a
little better.
Don't jump into a new relationship after divorce.
When a relationship ends, we often
want to get into another relationship
as fast as we can. We do this to avoid
our hurt. Although this may bring some
temporary relief, the avoidance of
this hurt tends to create more
suffering in the long run. This is
true for several reasons.
First, the more eager you are to find
a relationship, the less patience
you'll have to find the person that's
best for you. You are likely to end up
in a relationship that doesn't support
you. Second, the moment you step into
another relationship, the hurt that
you've been avoiding gets suppressed
and the healing process stops.
The hurt that you've been experiencing
is actually old hurt that's been
reactivated. This hurt has been
sabotaging you for years, and now it's
in your face. Feeling this hurt can be
very uncomfortable, but it's the best
time for a major healing. Now that
your hurt is on the surface, you can
heal it.
Allow yourself to feel your hurt and
put your focus on creating a life that
you enjoy. As you do this, the hurt
will lose power and soon disappear.
You will then have more peace of mind
and be in a much better position to
find the relationship of your dreams.
Focus on the opportunity after a divorce.
When you started your relationship,
you certainly never planned for it to
end, but this is what happened. Now
you have a choice. You can either
consider your new situation as an
opportunity or as a predicament.
Whichever you choose is what you'll
get. If you focus on the opportunity,
life will open up and great things
will happen. If you focus on the
predicament, you'll get more
suffering.
So focus on the opportunity. Look for
what's possible and take the steps to
have your dreams come true. There is
nothing you can do about your past but
there is a lot you can do about your
future. Have your life be great.
Bill Ferguson, a relationship and
divorce expert, created this site to
show you,
step-by-step, how to end conflict,
divorce as friends, restore cooperation and
heal your relationship, one human
being to another. From
helpful articles to divorce links,
from consulting to
E-Books, this site has everything
you need to help you get through this
difficult time.Divorce As Friends - Articles,
resources, and support to help
minimize conflict during your divorce,
and possibly
save your marriage - As featured
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Street Journal.
To learn more about getting on with
your life, visit
Mastery Of Life, another site
by Bill Ferguson. Be sure and read the
sections on cleaning up your life,
prosperity, life purpose and
spirituality. We also have a
Mastery Of Life Audio Course
that walks you through the process of
creating your future.
Consultations from Lilly
on life after divorce
I believe that all have the power
within to make the choices to pursue
the path in life they wish. Each of us
must walk our own path (not that
dictated by another) to fulfill our
soul's desire. This part of my
guidance is geared on helping you find
YOUR path and tools you have brought
in with you for this lifetime.
My purpose is not to take your power
away from you, each of us require
assistance from time to time in
clearing up a "cloud" around a
situation, however; my goal is to
assist YOU in finding the center of
YOU the place within where all true
answers are found whereby; we find our
true empowerment.
My goal is to enlighten, and
empower others through awareness,
understanding and education. In
partnership with Divine Guidance, I
strive to be The Pathway that spans
the gap between Belief and Knowing.
My mission is to be a celebration
of healing for body, mind and spirit.
My purpose is putting you in
touch with yours.
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