To offer no resistance is to be in a state of grace, ease, and lightness. This state no longer depends upon things being a certain way, good or bad. It seems paradoxical, yet when your dependency on form is gone, the general conditions of your life improve. Conditions or people, that you thought you needed now come without struggle and you are free to enjoy and appreciate them. Things will still pass away, but with dependency gone, there is no longer any fear of loss. Life flows.