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You share a deep sense of trust, happiness, understanding, mutual acceptance and respect. You truly enjoy just being together — whatever you are doing.

There's a daily abundance of words and acts that convey love and appreciation. Satisfaction is high, and only increases with the passage of each year.

Transform your unsatisfying relationship into a loving, sustainable, healthy partnership between equals. Relationship Coaching offered for couples of all stripes (straight and gay, married and unmarried, monogamous and open). The goal is to become a free couple -- expressing love easily; respecting each other; sharing equal power in the relationship; expressing desires, needs, and satisfactions; and resolving problems cooperatively.

And there is another essential ingredient...

Because all relationships are challenged from time to time, a successful couple has a record of facing issues or differences— and resolving them without being torn apart.
Challenges are met with a willingness to learn new relationship tools and strategies whenever necessary.

A successful couple looks back on a history of overcoming obstacles to see their personal growth, and how much closer they were brought together. The willingness to learn and grow is the key requirement for long-term success in a happy and fulfilling relationship.

If you do not have the uplifting partnership you want — things can change — and you can do something about it. But you need to do something different. If you just keep doing the same old thing — you'll just keep getting the same old results. There are simple tools and strategies that make a relationship strong, healthy and happy. These key tools can be learned.

For over two decades we've coached people to attain richly rewarding relationships.
Over this time we've found what works — and what doesn't — to promote deep and lasting satisfaction for a couple. There are specific strategies that will result in a strong, healthy, happy relationship that withstands the tests of time.

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These key tools can be learned.

It's a sad fact most of us are not shown the key strategies for relationship success growing up. These tools are not taught in school, and not usually demonstrated at home.
This is why we have such a high rate of divorce. And it's why so many couples share less satisfaction than they wish they could. We can easily become stuck in relationship difficulties.

If we don't have the right tools to get things back on track, a negative wall builds. This may increase conflict and power struggles, or lead to withdrawal and eventual loss of hope. Over time, as the negative wall grows, positive feelings get hidden behind it.

Strategies for a Strong Relationship

With the right strategies, you can keep from building walls. With the right tools, you can even take down a wall and rediscover the positive feelings you once shared. Whether you are single, or in a relationship — it will pay to equip yourself with the essential ingredients for relationship success. Even when you are facing hard issues, stress or challenges, you can keep a relationship strong and find solutions. But to do this takes the right know-how.

Are you getting the positive results and sharing the happiness you truly want in a relationship? If not, you must learn to do something different. If you just keep doing the same old things, you will just keep getting the same old results — or worse!

It takes a certain known set of key tools and strategies to build a great relationship, and to keep it strong over time. Like any skill, these are learnable. You can learn to communicate more effectively. You can learn to heal negative feelings, to release old baggage, and to stop destructive reactions. You can even learn how to build solid trust, and a deeply meaningful shared vision.

A great relationship doesn't just happen by itself. We need to learn the skills to succeed.
Do you know what truly "makes or breaks" a relationship? Most of us have been fed a very misleading myth... one that keeps us from learning to succeed.

Research Debunks an Old Myth

There's been an important finding in recent scientific research that studies the basis of lasting relationship satisfaction. The results will change how we think about love and relationships. And given the sad state of most relationships today, we need a new way to think! Until now, the conventional wisdom was that couples who were happy were "more compatible" and didn't have as many issues to deal with. This turns out not to be true.

The current research shows that happy couples encounter about the same number of issues, problems and differences as unhappy couples. The facts show that every relationship is challenged and tested from time to time. That simply comes with the territory, and there's no avoiding it. So if it is not the lack of issues, then what's the real difference that leads to a couple sharing lasting satisfaction and a sense of well-being?


What determines lasting happiness is how couples approach their issues. Successful couples have learned better tools to use in resolving problems, differences and upsets.
They use good tools under stress to get things back on track. And they use good tools to make sure their relationship stays vibrant and alive with positive feelings.

Here's what the current research shows:

It is a myth that happy couples have less issues to resolve.

All couples face similar amounts of problems and issues.

Couples who stay happy have learned the right tools to solve problems, work through differences, and keep good feelings alive.

What kinds of tools are we talking about?


Successful couples learn tools that help them communicate effectively — and not fall into traps where talking about problems leads to greater upset or withdrawal. They learn key strategies to deal with difficult feelings without it tearing them apart. In fact, they learn how to soothe and heal upset feelings. They learn skills for handling what looks like a serious obstacle, and avoid getting stuck in it.

And they learn how to keep good feelings and mutual trust alive — even if times are rough.


Soul Mates, Cell Mates, or Ex-Mates?

Couples who have good strategies will succeed. Those who don't risk what is sadly a normal relationship story today — being less than fully happy, then splitting up. Do you want to be soul mates, cell mates — or ex-mates?

The tools you use determine whether you build a rock-solid partnership — or end up on the rocks. The good news is that the essential ingredients for relationship success can be learned.

You Can Learn to Succeed

Whether you're single or in relationship— this is a good time to get the key tools and strategies to attain the partnership of your dreams. If not now, then when?

The willingness to learn and grow is a basic requirement for relationship success.
If you are ready to learn more effective ways of doing things, we can help. We can give you powerful tools and strategies that work.


For over twenty years, Lilly has been coaching people how to build great relationships.
She would love to personally coach you — by phone or in person.

But to take action right now — on your own.


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Learn the real-world workings of couples who stay happy. There's no fluff. Just the inside story of what it takes to have the relationship of your dreams.

You can either handle your situation in a way that restores love and promotes healing and cooperation, or you can interact in a way that creates more conflict and suffering.

How can Lilly help?

Depending on your needs, there are several ways we can support you.

1. Provide insight, advice and a concrete plan of action. You can work directly with Lilly to map out a strategy for what needs to be done.

2. Get to the cause of the problem plus create a plan of action. You can work with Lilly to find and heal the inner issues that create the problem and keep you from seeing your situation clearly. As you heal these issues, you restore both your peace of mind and your effectiveness. This is the key to handling any difficult situation. You can then work with Lilly to create a plan of action. In most cases, all this can be accomplished in two or three sessions.

3. Receive ongoing support. You can receive all the support you need to handle this difficult time in your life. Lilly can walk you through the process from beginning to end.

Why should I do this?

When you are full of fear and upset, you lose your ability to see clearly. You get tunnel vision. You feel threatened. Al you can do is fight, resist, hang on or withdraw. This in turn makes your situation worse.

For example, if you are hanging on to someone, you'll push the person further away. If you are fighting someone, you'll escalate the cycle of conflict. Almost any action you take in this state of fear and upset creates more suffering.

To be effective in handling your situation, you need to be free of the fear and upset. This allows you to see your situation clearly. You then become creative and able to discover solutions you could never have see before.

Lilly can walk you through the healing process and work with you to create a plan for what needs to be done.

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What times are available?

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How much does a consultation cost?

There is NO minimum session. You determine how much time and money you want to spend.

How do I contact you?

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Michael Webb's Relationship Collection
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