In order to get the most helpful and accurate reading, it is necessary that the client be open to being read. If you are pressured into a reading, or looking to validate strong opinions or previously made decisions that you do not want challenged, a reading may not be a good idea for you.
Not all people benefit from psychic readings, and I do not wish to talk people into getting one if they are unsure, skeptical, or wary of a psychic. I try to talk a bit with prospective clients beforehand, to determine if we are a good fit.
Being open-minded and receptive to suggestions is key for me to be able to work with you. Also, because readings involve energy flow and transfer between two people, not all psychics are compatible with all clients. Basically, if you are hesitant about getting a reading, I generally suggest you wait until you’re sure you’re ready to give it a try.
I’ve come to realize in my experience as a reader that many of you have been burned by some “psychics” claiming that they will or can return your lover. As a result of this, some of you call with a “chip” on your shoulder wanting to “test” the psychic. When you do this you subconsciously create a BLOCK that becomes impenetrable. Trying to go through that block is like trying to go through a steel door, that you, the caller, unknowingly put there.
As an Empath I can feel it immediately and it makes my reading extremely difficult, because you on a subconscious level (the level I read from) have decided that you really don’t want me to read you at all. In truth, the only way to really find out if a reader is right for you is to place your call with a relaxed, open mind, and leave the “chip” on the dresser drawer.
The sheer number of persons offering services of a “psychic” nature on the internet has grown to such an extent, that for anyone wishing to make use of these services, the choice has become overwhelming. Many many people who use the internet are very wary of online “psychics”.
That’s fair enough, it’s wise to be cautious, especially when it comes to parting with your hard earned money to someone you don’t even know. There are many reputable readers out there, but for someone searching the net for the services of a reader they can trust the choice can be daunting.
Most people want to know about their future, however, and this can’t be validated until some time passes. I can only do my best to be honest about what I see around you *in the moment*. For these reasons, it is best to assume that a good reading will give you choices, suggestions, and alternatives, as opposed to concrete answers that are unchangeable.