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You can't touch it, but it affects how you feel. You can't see it, but it's
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Esteem (say: ehs-teem) is a fancy word for valuing someone or something, or
thinking that someone or something is important. Self-esteem is the
collection of beliefs or feelings that we have about ourselves.
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e often use the expression "good self-esteem,
"poor" self-esteem or "no" self-esteem. How does one
"esteem" the self and what is the self anyway?Esteem involves loving respect and dignified caring. What
of the self? We come into the world with it; it follows us
through life like a shadow. If we lose it, we are lost. It is
profoundly affected by what happens to us along life's path.We find ways to protect the self from hurt: sometimes
we put our armor on to stop it from being injured. It
becomes our friend or our enemy--we like it or loathe it.
We live with the self in relative harmony or we battle it
mightily through life. We punish our bodies when we
associate it with our hated self. We esteem this central
part of us or we dis-esteem it and cause ourselves misery.
Building
selfesteem and self confidence
Here are some basic elements of
self-esteem
TRUST starts early in life and is based on
how we are received into the world. We learn to trust
ourselves and begin to have a realistic trust of others.
We begin to develop confidence in the self's ability to
choose others who are safe--who will not injure or
exploit.
SELF-NURTURE is born of trust--we learn how
to be caretakers of ourselves. Self-nurturing is an
essential ingredient of self-esteem.
AUTONOMY comes from mastery. We work through
necessary dependencies, to a growing independence. We
find interdependence when we can separate ourselves from
others around us and yet retain vital connections to
others.
IDENTITY grows. We begin to know who we are
and who we are becoming. In each stage of life,
self-esteem undergoes change and growth. We fool more
solid as our identity grows.
INTIMACY develops from identity and the need
for connection. It is the ability to relate closely and
to know the limits of closeness. We yearn to lose
ourselves in love and yet we need to retain our own
separate essence.
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Low Self Esteem &
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Healthy self-esteem involves all of the basic elements.
If we lose these characteristics or never develop them,
there is a significant absence of self-esteem. "Low"
self-esteem affects our body, mind and spirit. None of us
spring full blown into the world with characteristics
fully developed. Their creation takes work. So what can we
do...
Steps toward a higher level of self-esteem begin by
taking action.
Determine your personal attributes--positive things
about your physical, mental and emotional self such as
the way you look (body image, color of hair and eyes);
your mind and emotions; skills you have and those you
are developing; your potential; your values.
Practice becoming comfortable with yourself. Don't
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Genuine self-esteem comes from within.
Focus on your accomplishments. Congratulate yourself
for achievements, however big or small. Remind yourself
daily of the things you do well and of the courage you
have shown in the past or present.
Choose to risk in order to succeed. Establish
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become a problem solver. Examine strategies and
objectives which may have to be revised in order to
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Learn to be realistic and accept the fact that you
aren't perfect at everything and you don't have to be.
Stop condemning your faults--change what you can and
accept yourself by also acknowledging your virtues.
Learn to laugh at past disappointments when you can.
Use them as opportunity for insight and growth. Be
compassionate with yourself.
Visualize success. Mentally rehearse winning in
everything you do before you do it.
Nurture yourself by taking care of your health. Eat
well, get enough sleep and exercise. Learn to play.
Develop a support system of people you trust who
will listen when you need to talk.
Let go of resentment, guilt and revenge. Forgive
yourself and others. Recognize that you are unique and
have a place of importance in this world.
Meditate and call up your inner child. Recognize
what hurts in your past and try to imagine giving your
inner child what he/she needs to heal. If you feel
overwhelmed, seek help from a professional.
Sometimes we are out of touch with ourselves. We can be
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Seven Habits of Self-Love to Build
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1. Put yourself and Your Well-being
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3. Treat your body as the temple
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4. Spend the month doing
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things you really want to have or do and have been putting
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5. Learn to be comfortable in
your own skin instead of wishing you were in someone
else's.
6. Avoid putting everyone's
needs before your own.
7. List all of your strengths.
Think three positive thoughts about yourself before
falling asleep at night and before getting out of bed each
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Six ways to enhance your life And
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1. Set aside one hour every
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3. Light a candle beside you
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4. Make your home an oasis from
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great books and great friends.
5. Learn to be still. The
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least 10 minutes a day. Simply think about what is
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Silence indeed is golden.
6. Associate only with positive
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With each new year comes a fresh
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5. Am I as healthy as I want to
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6. Who are my heroes- and why?
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7. Is there room for more love
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9. Do I spend too much time
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11. What's the best part of me
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stick to what I know?
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14. Are there any apologies I
need to make? Is there anyone I've lost touch with and
want to call? What's stopping me?
15. Do I feel valued as a
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16. Do I put too much pressure
on my loved ones? Do I put too much pressure on myself?
17. Am I happy with my
relationship with God? Am I committed spiritually as I
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18. How do I feel in my own
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19. Do I hold too much anger in
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23. Could I push myself harder
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I achieve a goal?
25. What 25 things do I want to
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