Authentic, Ethical Spiritual Guidance

Authentic, ethical spiritual guidance empowers independence and self-trust. Good spiritual guidance wants the student to be free, able to stand on his own feet, strong enough to be able to reach out and help others, and wise enough to continue the course upward and forward, even without help from the teacher.

Authentic, ethical spiritual guidance always keeps pointing you the way upward and forward, and allows the student to grow without confining them in any way. You were born happy, creative, and comfortable in your own skin. Those qualities are still inside of you, waiting to be rediscovered.

Working together, we can make a positive difference in the satisfaction of your life experiences. I always tell my clients, I can only point directions, it is up to the individual to find his or her own unique key that unlocks their own unique spiritual guidance and journey. The mind’s ability to create miracles continues to astonish.

We have thousands of happy clients worldwide that regained their identity, confidence, and self love. And, so can you by removing the subconscious mental patterns that are blocking your: self love, success, and confidence.

What Is Spiritual Guidance?

Why do I need spiritual guidance and what is it?

At some point in our lives, we all find that we need help seeing possibilities. We need someone who is trained to be a better observer than we are – at observing ourselves, someone who can offer new interpretations and options.

The purpose of the Spiritual guidance offered here on Whispy is to counsel in areas of the heart and healing to bring about deliverance and liberty to the oppressed mind, body and spirit.

Knowing that our spirit plays an incredibly important role in our life’s experiences this website exists to honor, support, and celebrate the process of each persons own inner knowing; that innate intelligence that guides and governs all from within. One dream and the belief that it can be done. One spirit creating and accomplishing.

• We believe that life is meant to be a sacred and joyous event which deserves to be honored and respected in a loving, compassionate way.
• We are dedicated to helping create safe gentle connected psychic reading experiences.
• We consider our work to be a seed to remembering the perfection which is within.
• We take great pride, action, and care in the services we provide and/or recommend. All that we do has practical application and displays respect for the individual.
• We strive to support and enhance their relationship with themselves, in a gentle, loving way.
• We believe that life is the most precious gift that exist in the world and that the future of our world depends on our spirit’s being strong, courageous, happy and at peace.
• We desire to make our world a better place, because together– we can make a difference!

How To Find Ethical Spiritual Guidance

As already outlined on our prevent psychic scams page, you will probably meet tons of charlatans before finding your right psychic. But this doesn’t mean that you will have to be the victim every time someone tries to scam you. You do have rights, which every psychic should respect. If you feel that it is not the case, just RUN AWAY!

What To Ask Yourself About Your Psychic Reader:

• Is the psychic trying to push an agenda on you that you are not comfortable with? I.e., is your healer trying to push “ideals” of sexual non-monogamy on you even though you value monogamous relationships?

• When you first get a reading, meet a teacher or go to a class, are students asked to perform an exercise that brings up very painful, personal information that leaves you feeling vulnerable, and then uses group pressure to intensify and then “resolve” this pain?

• Is your psychic using personal information about you to attack you in subtle ways? I.e., I had a teacher once use a clients personal information, gotten in a private therapy session, to humiliate him in a public class.

• Is your reader/teacher/healer expressing appropriate boundaries? This is a very important clue. Your private therapist should not become your “buddy” in real life. You should not date your therapist, reader, healer or teacher, and they should not be making sexual moves on you. Notice whether your healer or teacher has seemingly bizarre relationships or suspect boundaries with others in their lives.

• Is your psychic, healer or spiritual counselor using “psychic predictions” to remove choice from your life? And are you using psychic predictions in place of taking action or making choices in your life? If you are going for a reading or healing session, and you are more excited to be hearing the latest “prediction” for your future, you may be using this as a way to avoid your own power of choice. Please note that a reader, healer or counselor with an agenda may not necessarily have great psychic powers, but may be telling you things she wants you to hear.

• Is your reader suggesting that you have to use his services? For example, Reiki does not need to be an ongoing process, unless you want it to be. You should not feel obligated or told that your life will fall apart if you don’t see a Reiki practitioner every week for the rest of your life!

• Is your psychic maintaining an aura of “spiritual superiority” over you, claiming that because she went to meditate five years in India or does psychic readings for a living, she “knows” better than you?

• Is your teacher withholding information on how you can become self-empowered? For example: Learning to do Reiki yourself is a great way to continue treatments without reliance on a practitioner. Developing your own intuition is perhaps more empowering than consulting a psychic once a week.

• Does your psychic ask you to do anything that makes you uncomfortable or goes against your ethics?

• Does your teacher/healer have their own guru, which they appear to worship perhaps more than is comfortable for you? Do you disagree with this “guru’s” basic teachings? Is the guru often referred to in a way that seems to elevate him to God-like status? For example, is the guru referred to as “Him” instead of just “him”?

• Are you getting more than you bargained for from a service? Is your intuitive healer giving you psychic readings as a “value add?” or vise versa? While this may be OK, be sure that you know what you are getting into beforehand, and you are OK with the healer’s qualifications and approach.

• Are you being pressured to sign up before you are ready? Are you being told that you have to put down a large deposit now or you will miss your “chance”. Are you being told that if you don’t join, it’s because of some deficit on your part? (I.e. “You’re just being in denial or afraid of change if you don’t join!” – which is a great technique to guilt someone into staying in a negative relationship as well.) Beware of hard sells. Remember: There is always another time slot, always another class, and always someone else you can go to for the same service if necessary.

• Are current members of the group pressuring you to join? Are you considering going to a free “introductory” meeting because you are sick and tired of a friend pressuring you constantly about it, and you’re hoping that if you just go to the meeting your friend will shut up? If so, you may consider that if your friend is pressuring you this much, the hard sell at the free meeting will probably be even harder to resist. My advice is to not go unless you really want to.

• Does the group run in secrecy? Is it hard to find any information about them on the Internet? When you ask the person “inviting” you for some materials on the organization, do they continually dodge your request?

• Do you have a bad feeling about something? In all cases: Trust your intuition and listen to it. It’s probably right.

So How Do You Know What Psychic To Trust?

Real spiritual guidance empowers independence, not dependence.  In all cases the best person to trust is yourself. Listen to yourself. Trust your intuition. What does your heart say?

By going into any psychic/client relationship with a firm foundation of personal trust, you can be protected by the one person who has your best interests in mind: yourself. As long as you don’t put your psychic up on a pedestal, you have the strength and the power to know when it’s time to stay and when it’s time to leave.

Do not ever doubt yourself when it comes to this. It is tempting, when you start to question your healer, to think that you are doing this as a form of self-sabotage. You know what? Better to sabotage yourself on occasion than to stay in an unhealthy relationship with a manipulative healer.

Despite these warnings, there are plenty of caring, loving psychics, healers and spiritual teachers who can help you along your path. They are everywhere and the good news is that you can try different psychics until you find the one that works best for you. Expect the best and you’ll find it. You deserve nothing less.

While I am a big supporter of New Age philosophy and many (NOT ALL) of its methods, I also come to it with a healthy skepticism. You should too (who knows, it may save your life).

As a note, I have personally heard a good number of the quotes below (or something very similar), directed at me. Oh … and these criteria apply to both people in a body ( readers) and those who are not (spiritual guides) – anyone who is supposedly speaking for or from God or the Light, or who claims or seems to be from Heaven or a higher plane. (You will notice a lot of friends and family may routinely fail these criteria, but most of them probably don’t claim to be Inspired at the time).